I can only remember one time when I made a $ offer to a chica in a bar when she wasn’t actually a working girl. She wasn’t offended, probably because where we were was a hooker hangout, but she politely declined and explained that she was just there for a drink. Fair enough.
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In most cases, if a woman dresses sexy and hangs out alone in a bar with other hookers, it’s pretty safe to assume she’s looking for a client. But the ‘game’ has changed and expanded in recent years, in particular with the rise of ‘social media’ such as Facebook.
Living as I am in Medellin, there are seemingly countless pretty women on Facebook. In the time I’ve been here, I have accumulated numerous ‘friends.’ A few were friends of (monger) friends and quite a few more actually sent me a friend request. In the case of any local female who is even moderately attractive, I will accept the friend request. Even if she doesn’t ring my chimes, some of HER friends may run across me in HER friends list and decide that I’m just the kind of guy (client) for her. That is, I have the money to pay the tariff.
Now, it is reasonably safe to assume that a chica with a half dozen mongers among her friends list is a prepago, but even assuming she is, I am in a bit of a quandary as to how exactly to proceed with setting up a pay for play date.
The most direct approach would be to say something like “Hola, Maria, I think you are very sexy. How much?” For me, that’s a little too direct. In one sense it doesn’t matter in the slightest, since if she is NOT a prepago, by some chance, offending her does me no harm because if she won’t do me for cash, she’s not going to do me at all. Still, it just seems tacky, and I try to avoid tacky. We gringos have a bad enough reputation as it is without me pouring any more gasoline on the fire.
So maybe before asking for a price quote, I ask if she is a ‘prepago’ first? If by some chance she isn’t, at least I didn’t outright ASSUME she was. But perhaps there’s a better way than either of those? If you have a way that works for you, I’d be glad to hear about it. You can email me or you can leave a comment. I would appreciate other points of view.