Everybody has heard the saying “There are some things money just can’t buy.” When it comes to “the hobby,” the list isn’t all that long. The usual cliche that comes to mind is “money can’t buy you love.” Well… I suppose it’s all in how you define “love.”
If your definition of love is that a certain female be “in love” with you, if you are talking about somebody else’s feelings toward you, then it’s true that no amount of money ALONE can make that happen. But there’s another saying I have heard, one mothers supposedly tell their daughters, that goes something like “it’s just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is to fall in love with a poor man.” Mama would prefer that Daughter fall in love with a rich man, obviously.
But let’s move past shopworn cliches and talk about mongering. Some mongers actually look for “love” among the sex workers. And a few seem to find it, oddly enough. That isn’t to say that I recommend getting emotionally involved with “providers.” In most cases it’s a bad idea. I’ve covered the subject from many angles on my other blog, Love Costa Rica Style. I don’t want to repeat myself here.
What I want to talk about here is something different, that is, something money can’t buy you with a sex worker. For enough money, I can’t think of much in the way of physical acts that you can’t buy. My own tastes don’t run to anything very exotic, but I do hear stories. If you want to cover your body in spaghetti sauce and pay to have some chica lick it off, I’m pretty sure you could find plenty of takers if the money was right. But I have found something that isn’t a matter of money. You can’t pay her to sincerely enjoy herself.
Some sex workers are good actresses. At least, I imagine some are. If they fooled me into thinking they were actually enjoying themselves, then how can I say they were acting? Bad actresses, on the other hand, are commonplace. A friend once told me about a session he had where he tipped the chica to kiss him, but she wasn’t “into it,” both the kissing and the sex overall. She did the usual moan and groan BS, but there was no doubt in his mind that it was an act, and not a very good act.
The best performers are those that can actually enjoy what they are doing. You can’t buy that.