There are obvious cases where the answer is clearly “NEVER AGAIN!” Why would anyone want to repeat with a chica who was just plain lousy? I suppose there are times when the client gave a bad provider a second chance because he just couldn’t believe she would be that bad a second time. I will admit to giving a mediocre performer a second chance, but it was always a mistake. And as far as giving a seriously bad experience a second chance, no way.
But there are reasons for not repeating that are not due to bad performance or lack of appeal. The main reason comes down to a desire for variety. In my experience, most men like a change of pace, or in some cases, a continuous stream of new women. This isn’t to say that there aren’t some men who ONLY want ONE partner. They do exist, it seems. They aren’t particularly common though, as far as I can see.
But there are reasons to repeat even for those who are fond of variety. I think most mongers who have been around the scene for a while have their ‘favoritas.’ The ‘favorita’ may not be the only woman he ever wants the rest of his life, but she’s someone he wants from time to time, at least. Perhaps she offers something unique to the experience… a certain look or attitude or technique, or maybe it’s just that she is reliably good.
I have a favorita whose look, attitude and performance are pretty much everything I look for. And yet, I haven’t been back to see her in a while. The reason is simply that there are SO many good options (in theory) here in Medellin that I am more motivated to seek out new experiences than repeat with a sure thing.
If I were here for only a weekend, there is no question that I would probably seek her out first. And if I only had enough money for one chica a week, I would also probably spend it on a sure thing. But fortunately, neither is the case. And in the end, I think it comes down to a similar trade off for all mongers. We remember the really good ones and repeat when we’re looking for a certain experience or we don’t have the time or opportunity to do random sampling. Otherwise we mix in favorites with variety. Sounds good to me.